In fact, not all control desire are caused by power desire. Some people like to control because they can't bear fail decisions. What is the reason for your control desire?
1. Tiger
Tigers are resolute and competent. They can usually provide good resolutions to problems. If they think they are right, it is almost not possible to change their minds. In fact, they enjoy very much the feeling when they control. Their partners can often feel that they are controlled by them. If their partners are also strong-minded, the relationships are usually not sustainable.
2. Snake
Snakes are perfectionists. They don't look so powerful as tigers, but they always make some high standards and require both themselves and others meeting the standards. Everyone has his/her own idea, but snakes don't like to compromise. For them the most important is that every thing must be perfect.
3. Dragon
Dragons have inborn leading talent. They are charming, competent and mysterious. Many are naturally excited by them and become their fans. Dragons never try to get focus, but they are just focused. Dragon never try to be followed, but they are just followed. When they are adults, they already get used to taking leading roles. The ways they speak and act bring out unintentionally the psychological advantage.
